Accountability
Accountability is the difficult, necessary practice of being answerable to those you affect—especially when the impact is one of harm, exclusion, or silence—and it asks more than compliance, more than apology, more than damage control; it asks for a relationship with truth, and a willingness to change.
In the context of schools, accountability means that staff, administrators, and districts face the realities of their decisions, that they stay present to the consequences, and that they do not disappear into procedural obscurity when a child’s well-being has been compromised.
It is neither punishment nor performance, but a form of relational integrity—an orientation toward justice that begins when those in power stop defending their image and start making amends.
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Disgusted with myself: how school advocacy erodes self-compassion
Some days I feel my own face harden, the jaw locking and the air leaving my lungs in a clipped exhale, the eyes narrowing into a refusal that feels like muscle memory. It is the same recoil I have seen across the meeting table, the same signal that too much has been brought into the…
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15 red flags your child’s school is running the playbook on you
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