Tips
Tips are sharp-edged offerings—legal clarifications, strategic insights, disability-affirming frameworks, and truth-telling comebacks—designed to help families name harm, assert rights, and navigate systems that often obscure both.
They arise from lived experience and collective expertise, from tribunal decisions and hallway whispers, from the quiet labour of parents decoding policy at midnight and the fierce clarity of disabled people who’ve lived the pattern before.
Each tip is a small act of resistance and repair—something to carry in your pocket, to send in an email, to say aloud in a meeting where your voice shakes but your truth holds—because knowledge is power, and power belongs with those most impacted.
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Shining a legal light on advocacy conversations
How to speak from a foundation of human rights while staying grounded in care. Firm, quietly defiant responses for families navigating school denial, delay, or deflection—centred on Kim Block’s Summer Series on the duty to accommodate. Each tip translates legal obligation into everyday language, illuminating the difference between disagreement and discrimination.
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Non-coercive, trauma-informed alternatives to PBS/ABA in BC schools
Positive Behaviour Support (PBS) and Applied Behaviour Analysis (ABA) are behaviourist approaches widely used in schools to manage student behaviour. However, a growing chorus of neurodivergent advocates, educators, and researchers highlight that these methods often prioritise compliance and “normalising” behaviour over student well-being rcpsych.ac.uk. By focusing on making neurodivergent children appear neurotypical (meeting neuronormative standards), traditional PBS/ABA can…
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The budget is the behaviour
These responses do not aim for diplomacy. They carry the clarity earned through harm. Most families hold them quietly—unspoken but vivid—because many relationships still require us to perform gratitude after exclusion. These sentences arise from moments when a decision was made to withhold care, to rename harm as misunderstanding, to value budget over belonging—and families…
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The ABCs of engineered scarcity
A learning module for educators, caregivers, and community members resisting austerity logic in public systems. Engineered scarcity operates like a slow haemorrhage, draining public education of the resources it owes every child while masking that attrition behind soothing administrative dialects; this primer sets out to rupture that façade by naming, in alphabetical precision, the tactics…
