
Legal and ethical
Includes the laws, policies, complaint routes, records, oversight bodies, and accountability tools families use to challenge exclusion, discrimination, delay, denial of accommodation, and procedural harm in schools.
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Happy belated PDA Day
I have written about Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) quite a bit over the past year, so for PDA Day / PDA Action Week I thought I would do a small review of the themes I keep returning to. It’s not wilful behaviour, usually Schools often read demand avoidance as refusal, manipulation, defiance, escape, or “not…
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Lies, damned lies, and ABA evidence: a prescription for greed
Imagine being told your child needs a treatment. Then imagine learning that the research used to sell that treatment was written, overwhelmingly, by people who make money from the treatment continuing. Now imagine that most of those researchers said they had no conflict of interest. That is the problem sitting underneath ABA. A new Psychology Today article highlights…
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Save Indigenous Education teachers in SD8
Kootenay Lake School District is moving toward a staffing change in Indigenous Education that families say will remove teacher-led Indigenous Education from elementary and middle schools and replace the teacher with Indigenous Support Worker positions. On paper, this may look like a staffing model change. One role is removed. Other roles are added. A budget…
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Bad medicine: ABA is a poison in the bloodstream of public education
The evidence is no longer merely emerging. It is converging. A national study of privately insured autistic youth in the United States matched 17,120 autistic children and youth who received applied behaviour analysis with 17,120 autistic children and youth who did not. The study found that ABA receipt was associated with 30% higher odds of mental…
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My Ollie is missing a lot of school
My Ollie has barely left his room since he came home exhausted from school one day last spring. He slept twenty-three hours a day for months. He barely spoke for months and had difficulty with basic hygiene. School chronically withdrew the supports he needed and pushed him to mask and comply until his nervous system…
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BC schools are failing disabled students: an absence analysis
This analysis is based on a provincial FOI request to the BC Ministry of Education, file ECC-2025-52461, which was shared recently, bc BCEdAccess. The data covers absence rates, absence reasons, enrolment, and mid-year exits for BC public school students, broken down by inclusive education designation, across the 2022/23 and 2023/24 school years. This analysis focuses on…
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Your accommodations, too
You arrive at the IEP meeting already tired. You have been awake since five, rehearsing the three sentences you practised last night; you put on something other than sweatpants, to look the part; you have swallowed the coffee that makes the morning bearable at the cost of the indigestion and tremor in your hands, which…
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They still haven’t learned: POPARD and PDA
POPARD’s internal PDA training materials have been circulating through parent communities this week, released through a freedom of information request to a BC school district, and what they reveal is something more structurally damning than a policy directive to dismiss Pathological Demand Avoidance — they expose the precise mechanism by which an organisation can train…
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One day, everyone will have always been against this
There is a piece of street art circulating depicting a small child crouched beneath a descending bomb, gathering flowers from the ground, and beneath her the words: one day, everyone will have always been against this. That phrase — “one day, everyone will have always been against this” — comes from Omar El Akkad, reflecting…
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When the complaint becomes the problem
The Canary Collective has published a piece Risk Assessment and Liability Management: The Hidden Function of Complaints that describes the process by which a parent raising legitimate concerns about their child’s education is transformed, through careful documentation and strategic delay, into a risk to be managed rather than a voice to be heard. The article…
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Masking and Human Rights law in BC
Autistic students (especially girls) often hide (“mask”) their natural behaviours to avoid peer conflict and “fit in” at school. When educators implicitly or explicitly demand this masking – for example by discouraging stimming or forcing conformity – it can amount to a form of discrimination and harm under BC and Canadian law. This article examines…
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The masking tax: how autistic girls absorb bullying invisibly in BC schools
Autistic girls in B.C. schools often develop sophisticated masking or camouflaging strategies to hide their autism in order to fit in and avoid bullying. In the short term this can make them appear “fine” – leading teachers and administrators to assume no support is needed – but the “masking tax” is high. Decades of invisible stress and exclusion build up as girls…
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Exclusion tracker: what 6,783 reports are telling us
The numbers arrived quietly, published in an interim report from the National Exclusion Tracker — five months of data collected since the tracker expanded from a BC-only tool to a national one, capturing the experiences of families across eleven provinces and territories. 6,783 reported incidents of exclusion from K–12 education since September. 68% of them…
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The cost of defending scarcity: moral injury and the exhaustion economy
The BC education system spends extraordinary resources defending scarcity while positioning that defence as fiscal responsibility, generating an exhaustion infrastructure that operates across every population the system touches—teachers, families, disabled children, administrators, support staff—all labouring to maintain stories that protect individual dignity within conditions designed to make moral action impossible. A recent analysis on Fund…
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Advocacy is too hard and schools expect too much
The BC Ministry of Education directs families to file complaints through their school district’s K12 system when schools violate policy, deny accommodations, or harm disabled children through exclusionary discipline. The process presents itself as accessible redress, a pathway families can navigate while managing the daily crisis of a child being room cleared, partially scheduled, or…
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What 8 years of advocacy took from our family
I advocate because I love my children and I want them to be well. Because I know the accommodations they require are entirely tenable, requiring only modest shifts in how adults think and respond. Because it is unbearable to watch them be slowly debilitated by a system that insists their needs are excessive and their…
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When improvement tolerates death: why schools must stop the line
Education systems insist they are engaged in continuous improvement. They invoke cycles, frameworks, data dashboards, and action plans to demonstrate seriousness and care. But children are killing themselves in every district, every year. Disabled children are being excluded, isolated, placed in hallways, sent home early, or left to deteriorate while plans are written. The question…




















